On Loving Again

Love again and never be afraid!

It is easy to say, but hard to do. Such statement will always be the ‘bukambibig’ of your friends when you ask advises from them. Some would say ‘just enjoy it’ or ‘go with the flow’ but both would mean the same.

I had a friend who happened to experience a very bad luck in relationships. It was his first girlfriend. The odds were never in their favor, so they had to separate ways. Still, my friend loved her very much even the girl had a new man in her life. He experienced trauma and never opened his heart again.

We became friends after an activity we both attended. I was so curious about him the way he stared people. Every time our eyes meet a tingling sensation is always electrifying me. He never failed to mesmerize me, and undeniably I fell in love with him. But that infatuation didn’t last longer.

He failed to see my true feelings, even though I am so showy about it. Like what he said to me, ‘Guys, aren’t mind readers’ and yeah he had a point. I gave up on him later knowing what he had promised to himself. This love is too one sided and I couldn’t live like this anymore. Another chapter of my life with him just ended, and all I have to do is to move on to another page and live my life joyfully again.There are times that you are afraid to love again after the pain you’ve been through. I can’t blame those people who were like him; either they were boys, girls, gays or lesbians, who were victims of heartbreaks. The pain will always bind them to those who are there waiting on their side for their love.

Remember this, you’ll be bound to love and be hurt again. Love and Pain are twins and are inseparable. Tend to look at your surroundings for people who were willing to love you and were worthy of your love. Sometimes you might find the wrong and sometimes you might find the right. It is a cycle. Go with the flow.

Even though someone failed to show you how wonderful love is, he/she knows, even if he’s/she’s not there at your side anymore you’ll keep on loving again.

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